so i was at urbandictionary.com and i found this and i think it just about sums it up...

3.	Love
	1.) An inexplainable yet incredibly strong feeling for someone...Most people use the word "love" to get into someone else's pants. Love is overused in today's world, people say they love someone because of the way they look or their body. That isn't love. Love is when you can't do anything without thinking about that person, you always want to be with them. It's not that you want to have sex with them, you just want to spend time with them and you just want to hold them and never let go. Love can be fooling, you can think you're in love and it can lead to the most horrible feeling in the world. Also you can wait so long for someone, loving them, and waiting for them to love you back, but they don't return it for a long time and you spend years thinking and thinking and it tears you up inside but when that person realizes that they love you back it's miraculous. Love is a very strong word, don't overuse it. 2.) A feeling that will not be returned to me...

9.	Love
	We think about it, sing about it, dream about it,lose sleep worrying about it. When we don't have it; we search for it; when we discover it; we don't know what to do with it; when we have it; we fear losing it. It is the constant source of pleasure and pain. But we can't predict which it will be from one moment to the next. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define, impossible to live without

Thirty ways to make a girl smile
1- Tell her she is beautiful. (not hot, there's a difference)
2- Hold her hand whenever you can. she loves that.
3- Kiss her on the forehead.
4- Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5- Always tell her shes the only girl you wanna be w/
6- When she is upset tell her how much she means to you.
7- Recognize the small things . . . they mean the most.
8- Call her baby.
9- Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
10- Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with
11- Write her notes and poems. (she loves them)
12- Introduce her to family & friends as your girlfriend.
13- Play w/ her hair.
14- Pick her up, tickle her & play-wrestle w/ her.
15- Talk to her w/o having to kiss her.
16- Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes.
17- Tell her when you miss her.
18- Let her fall asleep in your arms.
19- Open her car door.
20- If she's mad at you, kiss her.
21- Give her piggyback rides.
22- Randomly tell her when you think she looks her best.
23- Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.
24- Look her in the eyes & smile.
25- Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
26- Slow dance w/ her, even if there isn't any music playing.
27- Dont EVER ignore her, no matter who is around.
28- Kiss her in the rain.
29- Tell her EVERYTHING thats goin on your in your life. She wants to know.
30- When you fall in love w/ her . . . Tell her.